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“The Fear of flying solo”

Did you ever wake up on the other side of “happily ever after” to “OMG what just happened to my life?” Coming face to face with a fear of flying solo when you have spent...

Habits of Highly Sexual Couples

Couples that continue to engage in regular sexual activity at a higher level tend to maintain their health and wellness (including sleep). As their relationship develops they will also likely find...

Fun Positions For a Threesome

So, you’ve found the perfect third party to join your couple for some play, but you’re not sure how the semantics will work. Well, we’ve got some great, fun positions that work...

Sex Toys are Most Popular in Florida

It seems the sun doesn’t just shine on the beach in Florida, but also in lots of bedrooms, too. The result of a specific survey is very different from the results that the Huffington Post...

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O is for Outercourse

Jul 24th, 2019
Sexuality

Outercourse is defined as sex that doesn’t involve penetration in to the vagina or the anus. Some people also include no oral penetration however many discussions about outercourse go...

A Day In The Life Of A

Apr 29th, 2019
Entertainment

People have certain preconceptions when they hear the words "male escort". You may be forgiven to think that all a male escort does is to satisfy their clients' sexual urge, but surprisingly, this...

Thinking of Adding Another?

Apr 15th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

So You Want a Threesome? Here are Questions to Ask A couple desiring a threesome is not uncommon at all. For years, sexual fantasies revolving around two women and a man or two men and a woman have...

6 Tips for Revving Up Your Sex Life From a Sexpert

Apr 15th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

Could your libido use a boost? Tired of the same old, same old? Need more confidence to be uninhibited in the bedroom? We don’t have sex just because we like it—we do it because we LOVE...

6 Steps to Start Exploring the Swinging Lifestyle

Apr 15th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

As a clinical sexologist and sex coach, I have talked with numerous couples about their desire to swing, their challenges with starting, and how to navigate their sexy and fun times in the...

Being A Male Escort - The Real Story Behind

Apr 14th, 2019
Entertainment

There is a general consensus among people outside and within the industry that the demand for a straight male escort is so much lower than the demand for bisexual or gay male escorts. In truth, it...

Understanding the Desire Spectrum

Apr 5th, 2019
Educational, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

Frankly, the desire spectrum really is a way of attempting to establish the difference between “desire” and “arousal.” Desire vs Arousal Arousal is the physical...

What Are Sexperts and How Can They Help?

Mar 18th, 2019
Educational, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

As we begin to find out more about ourselves and our relationships, we uncover new people out there trying to help us along our way. On your way to charting your own sexual evolution you may have...

Sharing Sexology with a Wider Audience

Feb 27th, 2019
Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

We all crave connection, acceptance and love. One of the fascinating ways we express these desires is through sexual contact, yet it can often be one of the most mysterious and taboo subjects to...

I am Woman Hear me Roar - 7 Reasons for Loud Sex

Feb 18th, 2019
Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

Do you ever wonder why porn stars make so much noise during porn sex? All that heavy breathing, moaning, groaning, even howling and screaming in some cases? When I first discovered porn, I used to...

Why Sex Health Tips Are So Important

Feb 15th, 2019
Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

The foundation of The Sexy Lifestyle is opening our minds to new ideas and experiences. Important sex health tips allow us to continue--or even begin—our developing sex education. It can open...

LIVE Video: Why Are People in the Swinger Lifestyle? | Sex Uninterrupted

Feb 12th, 2019
Educational, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Sexuality

I asked the question "What attracted you to the Swinger Lifestyle? / Why did you decided to explore the Swinger Lifestyle & non-monogamy?" and talk about the answers I received! © SU...

LIVE Video: What You Want to Know About the Swinger Lifestyle

Feb 5th, 2019
Dating, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

I asked the question "What Do You Wish You Knew More About When You Opened Your Relationship/Started in the Swinger Lifestyle" and talk about the answers I received! © SU Lifestyle Media Inc...

Join the Adult Sex Education EVOLUTION with Our Great Sex Academy

Feb 4th, 2019
Educational, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

There’s never been a more important time to be working in the field of adult sex education. With countless pieces information at people’s fingertips, it’s important for...

Achieving Your Sex Goals in 2019!

Jan 30th, 2019
Sexuality

The New Year represents different things for everyone. For some, it’s a new chapter, a clean slate, a fresh start, a way to get rid of old habits, and make improvements on one’s self...

SEX and SOCIAL MEDIA

Jan 29th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Educational, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

"SEX & SOCIAL MEDIA” With Dr's Nancy & Mark on The Conscious Living Show which airs live every Tuesday 9am PT, 12noon ET. LISTEN TO SHOW NOW! (available soon) How has social media...

IGTV Viewer Q&A #1 | How To Bring IT Up? | Swinger Lifestyle Education

Jan 29th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

We regularly answer questions from our viewers and followers on IGTV! Q: How do you bring it up to your spouse that you want to explore the Swinger Lifestyle? © SU Lifestyle Media Inc. VISIT...

This is What Bisexual Really Means (at least to me)

Jan 29th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

It's not a "one-size fits all" kind of thing. Am I bisexual? It's something I always wondered, because I have been attracted to both men and women for as long as I can remember. When I was a...

The Counterintuitive Reason BDSM is the Best Way to Explain Sexual Consent

Jan 27th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

Yes, really. If you're offended by the notion that BDSM may hold powerful answers to the issues raised by the #MeToo Movement, it's likely because you don't have a clear understanding of authority...

9 totally unexpected facts about kissing that you never knew

Jan 27th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

You're welcome. Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we perform as human beings. We kiss to demonstrate affection, to demonstrate desire and to increase desire. Darwin wrote about kissing and...

The real reason men are so turned on by rough sex

Jan 25th, 2019
Kink & BDSM, Sex Ed 101

It seems that since 50 Shades of Grey became popular, rough sex and BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism) have hit the mainstream. References can be found everywhere from...

LIVE Video: Coming Out to My Family | Sex Uninterrupted | Non-Monogamy Podcast

Jan 22nd, 2019
Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

I open up about my life in a non-monogamous relationship and how I am choosing to live authentically. I do lives on Instagram often so please make sure you're following if you want more...

3 Tips to Improve Sexual Intimacy with your Partner

Jan 14th, 2019
Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

One of the best parts of hosting a radio show all about sex and sexuality, is learning from the best sex educators in the business. So many people ask us for tips and tricks that we often feel like...

Properly Use a Condom - video tutorial

Jan 8th, 2019
Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

I discuss AND demonstrate how to properly use a condom and put one on! Visit DESIRE AND SPICE HERE & stock up on lube!use the code TAARAPROMO for 15% off

What Happened to My Estrogen? Causes of Early Menopause

Jan 6th, 2019
Health & Wellness, Sexuality

You're feeling fine and living your life. Inside, you still feel like an insecure teenager but on the outside, there's the stray grey hair and maybe...was that a hot flash? You start to feel...

4 Reasons Why You Should Masturbate in a Relationship

Jan 3rd, 2019
Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

Contrary to the popular belief, masturbating while in a relationship is completely normal, and absolutely beneficial. Many people stray away from masturbation under the assumption that “I am...

What IS a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist? Dr. Robyn Wilhelm Answers

Jan 2nd, 2019
Health & Wellness

Are you at the end of your rope and one of many coping with urinary incontinence? Have you accepted that wearing pads or (eek!) adult diapers is your destined path? Or maybe you're unsure of where...

Bladder leakage? Gain control with Lovelife Krush

Jan 2nd, 2019
Fitness, Health & Wellness

It happened at work. I was 41. I had dark jeans on that got darker when the urine burst forth from my bladder and soaked my legs, the standard-issue industrial chair I was assigned and my socks. My...

BJ Tip & Toys You Can Use

Jan 1st, 2019
Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

Today I discuss Blowjobs and all the fun toys you can incorporate into your fellatio play! PURCHASE THE TOYS I DISCUSSED HERE & USE THE PROMO CODE TAARAPROMO for 15% OFF!!!!

The Sex Uninterrupted Vision

Dec 27th, 2018
Alternative Lifestyles, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Relationships, Sexuality

James and I have been in an open / non-monogamous relationship together since we started dating in 2013. We both were sexual and experimental young adults and often felt misunderstood by...

Sex During Pregnancy - Tips for Comfort!

Dec 21st, 2018
Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

Ladies, it's time to drop the prehistoric myths around sex that your grandma told you. Sex during pregnancy is completely healthy! In fact, it is actually beneficial to continue having regular sex...

Stress and Low Sex Drive: What You Can Do

Dec 20th, 2018
Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

Ughhhh… that feeling hits again. Your partner wants to be intimate with you, but you are just not feeling it. How did this low sex drive creep its way in? You are stressed beyond belief, and...

Chronic Pain and Sexual Intimacy: Giving and Getting the Pleasure That's Deserved

Dec 19th, 2018
Health & Wellness, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

50 million people in the United States are living with chronic pain. But these large numbers can just be unfeeling stats on a page and it can be tough to understand exactly what that looks like. To...

We-Vibe Touch for Solo or Couples Play - Review

Dec 19th, 2018
Health & Wellness, Sexuality, Shopping

You would think that with the amount of vibrators that I own, they would all feel the same. WRONG. Each vibrator has its unique feel and purpose, which is why the We-Vibe Touch vibrator has...

A is for Arousal - Where Sex Begins

Dec 13th, 2018
Alternative Lifestyles, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality

A is for Arousal which is where sex begins. There is no sex without arousal. Arousal begins in the mind. Even for those of us who first experience arousal through visual means...

"Sex Positive Parenting" Do Kids Have Sexual Rights Too?

Dec 11th, 2018
Relationships

"Do Children Have Sexual Rights? With Dr's Nancy & Mark on The Conscious Living Show which airs live every Tuesday 9am PT, 12noon ET. LISTEN TO SHOW NOW! Today we bring on the tender topic of...

Why Consensual Non-Monogamy

Dec 11th, 2018
Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Relationships, Shopping

I never woke up one day magically craving an open relationship and announcing that I wanted to be non-monogamous with my partner. For a long time it wasn’t even something I was familiar...

To my daughter, you will not be invisible.

Dec 9th, 2018

To my daughter, you will not be invisible. In my last article I discussed a rather non traditional (controversial for some) way of introducing my daughter, now seven, to her vulva...

From Private Parts to Vulva, talking with my daughter

Dec 9th, 2018

My daughter Ariella, now 7, always called her ‘private part’, Toulla. Admittedly a hybrid between Zulu and Greek given my roots and ashamedly this is what I taught her when she was 2...

Vaginal Dilators: What Are They?

Dec 4th, 2018
Health & Wellness

To begin, before anyone asks: vaginal dilators are not dildos! Many doctors, nurse practitioners and doulas we speak to at conferences know right away what we have on display. Others giggle and...

The Couple Behind Sex Uninterrupted - Taara & James

Dec 4th, 2018
Sexuality

Sexuality is an important part of who you are. Man or woman, somewhere deep down, we all possess desires, urges, and fantasies. Whether you choose to acknowledge this or not is a hundred percent...

Sex Toy Review: GALA by We-Vibe

Nov 27th, 2018
Sex Ed 101

I am not a toy girl. Sure I picked some up here and there but they were more novelty items than actual mastruabtation tools. They were only brought out when I wanted to show them off, be...

Sacred Intimacy & Erotic Communication Retreat

Nov 23rd, 2018
Seminars & Retreats

VALENTINE'S WEEK AT HEDONISM BOOK YOUR TRIP TODAY! "Sacred Intimacy & Erotic Communication Retreat" Joining Hedonism II's Valentines' week once again are Drs. Nan &...

Sex and The Sybian

Nov 23rd, 2018
Relationships

SEX & THE SYBIAN With Dr's Nancy & Mark Interviewing Bunny Lampert. LISTEN TO SHOW Nov 20, 2018 Conscious Living Show Blog Description: Meet Bunny Lampert. The...

Lube Lights Holiday Sale Going on Now!

Nov 21st, 2018
Shopping

It is officially holiday shopping season! From now until Deceber 25, enjoy these discounts when you shop at www.lubelights.com ! - 15% off 1 Lube Light (promo code TURNEDON15), 25% off 2...

Swinger Lifestyle Vacations

Nov 20th, 2018
Travel

Travel is a HUGE part of the lifestyle! There are so many companies, groups, destinations, takeovers...it can be overwhelming! Especially for someone that is new. I know when we went on our first...

HOLIDAY SALE!

Nov 20th, 2018
Relationships

Buy TOUCH, Get WARM 50% off! Less than $200 for your hottest holidays, yet! Make sizzling new memories this season with WARM and TOUCH. FREE SHIPPING! No Code Required - Discount...

3 Fun & Flirty Ways to Integrate WARM™ and TOUCH™ into Your Intimacy

Nov 17th, 2018
Relationships

Time to wrap up this intimate journey together, and it has been a lot of fun sharing with you! For our final adventure, I wanted to give you three bonus #WarmHacks to say Thank You for following...

The Sexual Trifecta - Connection

Nov 17th, 2018
Relationships

Ready for the culmination of your most erotic, ignited, elevated, sensual pleasures? In our first adventure, we explored “Why Warm?” Then we engaged our minds into the delicious joys of...

The Sexual Trifecta – Sensation

Nov 17th, 2018
Relationships

Hi again! I am Janine, co-founder of Warm and the “Queen of Heat” with some more hot insights into elevating your intimacy. In our last blog post, I touched on the challenges that are...

The Sexual Trifecta – Anticipation

Nov 17th, 2018
Relationships

Relationships are not always easy. They are worth it, and that is a different thing than easy. Long-term partners understand that relationships take consistent engagement to keep the connection...

An Orgasm SO Intense, It Sparked an Entire Company

Nov 17th, 2018
Relationships

Could you imagine? An orgasm so intense it propelled you to invest in building an entire company to help others experience the same pleasure you did? It may sound like click bait but this is the...

Is Intimacy Going Extinct? (Nov 13, 2018 Show)

Nov 13th, 2018
Relationships

IS INTIMACY GOING EXTINCT? With Dr's Nancy & Mark LISTEN TO SHOW Nov 13, 2018 Conscious Living Show Blog Description: Loneliness is increasing with each generation leading to more...

Pleasure Is Our Birthright (Nov 6, 2018 Show)

Nov 13th, 2018
Relationships

PLEASURE IS OUR BIRTHRIGHT! With Dr's Nancy & Mark LISTEN TO SHOW Nov 6, 2018 Conscious Living Show Blog Description: Pleasure is something we assume everyone enjoys, yet many women never...

Wake Up To Your Sexy Life! (Oct 30th Show)

Nov 13th, 2018
Relationships

Wake Up To Your Sexy Life! With Dr's Nancy & Mark LISTEN TO SHOW October 30,2018 Conscious Living Show Blog Description: What does it mean to “wake up” to your life? ...

Anal Beads & Anal Play Video

Nov 13th, 2018
Sex Ed 101

I talk about Anal Beads and why they are so much fun! These are great for beginners and those looking to spice something up and try something new! PURCHASE THIS TOY HERE & USE THE PROMO...

Rules & Boundaries: what they are, why you need them & how to communicate them

Nov 6th, 2018
Kink & BDSM

Rules and boundaries build the foundation for your experience in the Swinging Lifestyle. Below I discuss what exactly rules and boundaries are, why you need to establish them and how to...

All About Swinger Lifestyle Clubs

Oct 30th, 2018
Sexuality

Everyone is curious to know what a swinger club is like. In our city alone there are already FIVE clubs and from coast to coast you can find plenty more! Over the years I have noticed a major...

Our Inaugural Conscious Living Show!

Oct 23rd, 2018
Alternative Lifestyles

Today launched the NEW Conscious Living Show in the Grown and Sexy Version! Listen To Today's Show Here! Hi, I'm Dr. Nancy. I have had the great gift of hosting The Conscious...

Chakrubs, Yoni Eggs and Pussy Health

Oct 23rd, 2018
Sexuality

If you’ve been present on social media, I’m sure you have heard all about crystals and their healing benefits. The New Age movement is surfacing and it’s not just the shamans and...

“The Fear of flying solo”

Oct 21st, 2018
Dating

Did you ever wake up on the other side of “happily ever after” to “OMG what just happened to my life?” Coming face to face with a fear of flying solo when you have spent...

“Get up to date on your life”

Oct 21st, 2018
Dating

When a year ends, we have time to reflect on the past and set new goals for ourselves no matter what they are. It’s a fresh start and it’s a blessing on its own to be able to ring in...

Consent & Playing Safe are a Must in Consensual Non-Monogamy

Oct 16th, 2018
Sexuality

Thinking of exploring in the Swinger Lifestyle? We discuss topics that are great for first timers surrounding playing safe and the importance of consent. The Lifestyle isn’t just about...

Why Some Men Come Faster Than Others

Oct 12th, 2018
Sexuality

If we take a look at the two largest studies about the average sex time, we find out that the median time of vaginal penetration is around five minutes and a half. That means that 50% of men...

“Designer Relationships”

Oct 8th, 2018
Dating

“If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan and guess what, they haven’t planned for you”-Jim Rhon- When it comes...

The Art of Dating Smart

Oct 8th, 2018
Dating

There is a thought process for many that just because we are confident, mature and even worldly individuals, we know everything about dating and relationships. Well, we don’t! The missing...

Men's Sex Toys That Give More Than Just A Happy Ending

Oct 7th, 2018
Sexuality

When most people think of men's sex toys, they tend to think of the imitation or 'real look and feel' of the fake vaginas or the masturbation sleeves. There are men's sex toys that are actually...

Top 5 Natural Ways To Get Your Juices Back - No Lube Required

Oct 7th, 2018
Health & Wellness

Vaginal dryness can be caused by a number of internal and external issues. Internally it can be caused by perimenopause or menopause with declining hormone levels, lose of elasticity. Vaginal...

Frequently talking with your teen about sex can promote safe sex later in life

Oct 4th, 2018
Sexuality

Parents who talk to their kids about sex , sexuality and sexual health can benefit from an improved parent-child relationship according to new research.

“Sober the new SEXY!”

Sep 30th, 2018
Alternative Lifestyles

Is alcohol impacting your relationships? Are you even aware that you or maybe someone in your circle is suffering from some form of addiction? You may not be. For instance, drinking has become such...

“Dating as a SINGLE MOM”

Sep 30th, 2018
Dating

Are you a single mom or dad? If so, how are you balancing love and relationships in today’s dating world? Do you feel isolated or overwhelmed at times, just barely able to keep your head...

Bromance – WTF is it really????

Sep 25th, 2018
Relationships

By now, everyone’s heard the term and, perhaps even, seen one on TV. Remember our former president and VP, Barack Obama and Joe Biden – you couldn’t miss that one. ...

Moving forward with LOVE!

Sep 21st, 2018
Relationships

Have you ever arrived at a crossroads, looked at all the different street signs of life and been unsure of which path to follow? Well, if you are like most individuals and honest about it, the...

Don't 'Fake it 'Til You Make it' When it Comes to Orgasms

Sep 19th, 2018
Sex Ed 101

"When we first started dating, I had a hard time reaching orgasm and I didn't want him to feel bad about his bedroom skills, so I got into the habit of faking it. When we got married I stopped...

Naughty In N'awlins 2018

Aug 24th, 2018
Seminars & Retreats

August 3, 2018 Catching Up with an emotional Dr. Nan about the tragedy in Northern California town and then a lot of fun sharing about Naughty In N'awlins 2018!

9 Reasons She Wants to Have Sex With You

Aug 7th, 2018
Sex Ed 101

Remember when you first discovered sex? In your 6-year-old mind, your parents had done the dirty twice—once to conceive you, and a second time to crank out your little sister. Then, around...

Let's Try Anal

Aug 7th, 2018
Sex Ed 101

Slightly taboo and very naughty, anal sex could be just the thing you need to spice up your sex life. The pleasure of anal sex has both mental and physical aspects. How do dirty thoughts make you...