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How to Have More Fun at Sex Parties
Do you have a desire to re-ignite your sex life outside the box of society’s monogamist norms? If so, you’re not alone! As a Sexologist, understanding how individuals and...
What Increases Affectionate Touch in Intimate Relationships?
Affectionate touch, such as hugging, holding hands, kissing, or cuddling, is a way of expressing fondness, love, and support in our intimate relationships. It has been well documented that...
What Makes an Open Relationship a Healthy One?
As our culture becomes increasingly diverse, some of that diversity is reflected in the kinds of intimate relationships that people seek. For example, we see a more open acknowledgment...
Tantra Sex Positions to Open Your Chakras
Tantra Sex Positions Make a ritual to do these at least once a week with your lover and focus especially on weak or closed Chakras. Rooted: Sit opposite your lover on the floor with legs...
All Blogs & Articles
Can Kink Lead to Self-Actualization?
Written by Dr. Gloria BrameMay 15th, 2022
Alternative Lifestyles, Health & Wellness, Kink & BDSM, Sexuality
38 years ago, I finally, reluctantly, accepted the truth about myself: I was kinky AF. It’s not as if I’d ever forgotten that I tied myself up to masturbate as a teen, I just stubbornly...
The best tips & products for confidence at Swinger Lifestyle Parties
Written by Dr. Cari OnealMar 8th, 2022
Alternative Lifestyles, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Party Supplies, Relationships, Sexuality
Looking for tips and products to feel more confident at Swinger Lifestyle Parties?You’ve come to the right place…Let’s be honest, those of us who play in the Lifestyle care about...
How to Avoid Drama When Playing with Unicorns in The Lifestyle
Written by Dr. Cari OnealJan 23rd, 2022
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sexuality
To Anyone Playing with Unicorns in the Lifestyle… If you are a couple in the Lifestyle OR a single woman engaging with others, I suggest you keep reading. While this post is written with the...
How To Process Trauma For More Satisfaction In The Lifestyle
Written by Dr. Cari OnealJan 23rd, 2022
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sexuality
For many people, playing in the Lifestyle can be as easy and natural as any other hobby or past-time. That said, there are many other wonderful people who get tripped up when they try to join in on...
Lube Alternatives: What Can I Use Instead Of Lube
Written by Dr. Laura BermanNov 29th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Lube is one of the most important items during sex, honestly, it's probably THE most important item. The problem is that we don't always have it just lying around the apartment. While not...
Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction: Is It Really A Thing?
Written by Mark GoldbergNov 29th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Ever watched a little too much porn, and then had a hard time getting it up? Relax, you're not the only man who has faced a similar situation. The fact is, young men and old men alike can be drawn...
Delay Sprays: How To Use, Tips, FAQs And More
Written by Dr. Robert ValenzuelaNov 14th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Sexuality
Most guys have been there. You're planning for a marathon session and instead end up running a short sprint, or maybe even just a 100-yard dash. Your partner is a long way from the finish line and...
Edging Technique For Premature Ejaculation: 5 Simple Steps
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerNov 14th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Do you routinely find yourself reaching climax sooner than you or your partner want? Well practicing the edging technique during masturbation or sex can help you last longer in bed. A lot...
What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy, and Could It Work for You?
Written by Gabrielle SmithNov 14th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Relationships, Sexuality
I've always been non-monogamous, just like I've always been Black and I've always been queer. Being non-monogamous, however, I think was the easiest thing to accept about myself. Perhaps because...
NoFap: Benefits, How To And FAQ
Written by The Promescent TeamOct 29th, 2021
Educational, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Wondering what all the buzz over NoFap is about? If so, you’re not the only one. Besides your initial interest in the NoFap meaning, you may have other pressing questions. More than anything...
What to Try When One of You Wants Sex, but the Other Doesn't
Written by Dr. Sarah Hunter MurrayOct 29th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
You’re feeling turned on and start to initiate sex with your partner, but they roll over and tell you they just want to go to sleep. Or you’re sitting on the couch relaxing, immersed in...
9 New Sex Positions That Are Really Just Fresh Takes On Your Favorites
Written by Hannah HickokSep 27th, 2021
Dating, Health & Wellness, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Why resort to the same old same old this weekend when you could try some new sex positions instead? Let’s spice it up, baby! I know it can be tempting to rely on positions you know...
How To Make Someone Orgasm Just By Touching Their Nipples
Written by Dr. Ava CadellSep 27th, 2021
Dating, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
There are many different kinds of orgasms that you can experience through the stimulation of different parts of your body. Each one creates different kinds of feelings, ranging from quick to short...
What is a Squirting Orgasm and What Makes it Special?
Written by Dr. Cari OnealAug 11th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Did you know that squirting orgasms are a sex skill that can be learned? And YES, you can learn how to have — and give — squirting orgasms! After teaching hundreds of women how to...
How to Have More Fun at Sex Parties
Written by Dr. Cari OnealAug 6th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sexuality
Do you have a desire to re-ignite your sex life outside the box of society’s monogamist norms? If so, you’re not alone! As a Sexologist, understanding how individuals and...
How is EFT Used to Cultivate a Great Sex Life?
Written by Dr. Cari OnealAug 6th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
The Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), also known as Tapping, is a highly effective therapeutic tool for the treatment of physical pain and emotional distress. EFT is one of the few...
Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships
Written by Ritch C. Savin-Williams Ph.D.Jul 25th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
Here, I revisit an issue addressed many blogs ago regarding the prevalence and nature of nonmonogamous relationships. Information comes from the 2012 National Survey of Sexual Health and...
Kegel Exercises For Men To Last Longer: Step By Step Guide
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerJul 25th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Relationships, Sexuality
A lot of people think Kegel exercises are only for women, but they’re wrong. While it’s true that Kegel exercises were originally developed to help women dealing with bladder control...
What Increases Affectionate Touch in Intimate Relationships?
Written by Sarah Hunter MurrayJul 25th, 2021
Dating, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Affectionate touch, such as hugging, holding hands, kissing, or cuddling, is a way of expressing fondness, love, and support in our intimate relationships. It has been well documented that...
What Makes an Open Relationship a Healthy One?
Written by Douglas LaBier Ph.D.Jul 12th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
As our culture becomes increasingly diverse, some of that diversity is reflected in the kinds of intimate relationships that people seek. For example, we see a more open acknowledgment...
The Squeeze Technique: Step By Step Guide
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerJul 12th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Every guy wants to perform well between the sheets—and the squeeze technique just might help you to do just that if you’re looking to last longer in bed. This is one of many...
Tantra Sex Positions to Open Your Chakras
Written by Dr. Ava CadellJul 12th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Educational, Health & Wellness, Sexuality
Tantra Sex Positions Make a ritual to do these at least once a week with your lover and focus especially on weak or closed Chakras. Rooted: Sit opposite your lover on the floor with legs...
2021 Sexual Health and Wellness Predictions, According to Experts
Written by AskMen EditorsJun 4th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sexuality
If you had “the whole world will be massively impacted by a global pandemic” on your list of 2020 predictions last January, congrats on your prescience. For the rest of us, knowing what...
30 Ways To Boost Sexual Stamina For Men (2021 Guide)
Written by Dr. Laura BermanJun 2nd, 2021
Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
So, the question you are probably asking right about now is, "How do I improve sexual stamina?" Sexual stamina and more importantly, increasing sexual stamina, is something most men think of...
Are People in Open Relationships Happier?
Written by Zhana Vrangalova Ph.D.May 31st, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
As I’ve written before, there’s a widespread belief that people in open relationships are less healthy and happy than people in monogamous relationships. With intensified empirical...
Women, Swinging, Sex, and Seduction
Written by Edward Fernandes Ph.D.May 11th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
One of the questions I’m asked most often is if swinging is a male-driven and dominated endeavor, where husbands coerce their wives into this “degrading” situation. The assumption...
Does Being Fit Improve Your Sex Life?
Written by Nicole DavisMay 11th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Fitness, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
What does ‘fit’ even mean? We know that exercise has tons of benefits — building strength, sleeping better, stressing less. Being fit just feels good, doesn’t it? But if...
Open or Closed Sexual Relationships?
Written by Ritch C. Savin-Williams Ph.D.May 11th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sexuality
Using US Census data from 2013 and 2014, researchers from the Kinsey Institute asked participants if they had ever had an open sexual relationship, defined as “an agreed-upon...
A spot of slap and tickle: the beginner’s guide to spanking
Written by Tracey CoxApr 18th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Theories on why a slap on the bottom feels sexy abound. Some say it’s the result of humiliating childhood spanking sessions. When something bad happens to us as a child, our natural...
Want to have more mindful sex? Try Tantra, Taoism and the Kama Sutra
Written by Tracey CoxApr 18th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Ancient ‘life manuals’ like the Kama Sutra might well be marvellously eccentric, slightly quirky and sometimes downright bonkers in parts. But there are some absolute...
How to use a vibrator on a man
Written by Tracey CoxApr 18th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
“I’ve heard that men like vibrators used on them. But how and where and how do I suggest it?” It’s a question I’m asked often, so here’s the lowdown. If...
Guilty pleasures: Am I weird for fantasising about that?
Written by Tracey CoxApr 18th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Here’s a comforting thought: no-one’s worked out how to read minds yet. Which means it doesn’t really matter what filthy thoughts are floating around in there! If you...
4 Ways the Pandemic Has Changed Our Sex Lives
Written by Dr. Sarah Hunter MurrayMar 24th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
There are no shortage of theories and ideas about how the pandemic is influencing our sex lives. Some have hypothesized that, due to lockdowns, self-isolation, and increased time at home &mdash...
How Watching Porn Alone or Together Affects Relationships
Written by Dr. Sarah Hunter MurrayMar 24th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Most adults report watching porn at some point in their lives and it's common to continue watching pornography even if we are in a partnered romantic relationship. The question is: How does...
In a Relationship, Who Tends to Sext First?
Written by Dr. Sarah Hunter MurrayMar 24th, 2021
Dating, Kink & BDSM, Millennials, Relationships, Sexuality
Traditional sexual scripts for men and women prescribe that men should be the ones to initiate sexual activity and to push for more sexual contact while women act as the gatekeepers who say yes or...
How to Maintain Sexual Satisfaction in Relationships
Written by Dr. Sarah Hunter MurrayMar 24th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
You meet your partner, you enjoy getting to know one another, and you fall in love. Now for the tricky part: How do you make your intimate relationship last and even flourish? It's a question that...
Top 12 Sex Positions To Help You Last Longer
Written by Dr. Laura BermanMar 10th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
If you happen to be one of the one-in-five men between the ages of 18 and 59 who suffers from premature ejaculation, sex with a partner carries an extra layer of anxiety. Will you reach orgasm...
Learning To Speak ‘Womanese’: 4 Conversational Tips For Guys
Written by Erika JordanMar 10th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Relationships, Social
Are you wondering how to talk to women? Men and women are so different that it seems like they come from different planets. Or, at least, that’s what New York Times bestselling...
Penis Sensitivity 101: Learn To Reduce Your Sensitivity In Bed
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerMar 1st, 2021
Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
When something isn't quite right "down there," you probably won't hear a lot of guys complaining. Having a penis problem is a rather touchy subject. It is something that many men would prefer to...
Sex & High Heels
Written by Dr. Ava CadellFeb 24th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
It is hard not to feel sexy in a pair of high heels as they change the way a woman feels and walks, in a more sensuous way. Her body is also accentuated as heels thrust her hips and breasts...
Top 10 Foods That Increase Libido And Sex Drive
Written by Dr. Laurence LevineFeb 22nd, 2021
Dating, Educational, Food & Nutrition, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Looking for some foods that increase libido? If so, that’s a smart move. When it comes to improving your sex life, it makes sense to employ a variety of sexual wellness strategies. The...
Open Relationships Are More Popular Than You Might Think
Written by Michael Castleman M.A.Feb 9th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Millennials, Relationships, Sexuality
Guess how many North American couples grant each other permission to: Occasionally step out and play sexually with others (hall passes, sex clubs). Engage in partner swapping...
Top 7 Valentine’s Day Gifts for the Sensual Woman
Written by Dr. Cari OnealFeb 5th, 2021
Dating, Relationships, Sexuality, Shopping
Looking to shake things up? Honey, I think we all are! This year, I’m letting Valentine’s Day be the pattern interrupt that I, and I’m sure most of us, need. Just because...
How To Avoid Painful Sex
Written by Xanet PailetJan 19th, 2021
Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
HOW TO AVOID PAINFUL SEX...
How to use Sex Magick to Manifest Your Desires in 2021
Written by Xanet PailetJan 19th, 2021
Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Congratulations! You made it to 2021! This past year has tested all of us in ways we never imagined possible and yet here you are in January 2021 alive and well and I hope ready to face the...
JUST DO IT!
Written by Xanet PailetJan 19th, 2021
Dating, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Lack of desire is one of the most common complaints I hear from women. While menopausal women tend to be the most frequent complainers, women’s lack of desire is not just about hormonal...
Are Condoms Ruining the Moment?
Written by Xanet PailetJan 19th, 2021
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
CONDOM PHOBIA AFFECTS LOTS OF MEN BUT CAN BECOME ESPECIALLY WORRISOME WHEN YOU ARE JUST GETTING OUT OF A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. Have you ever had condoms ruin the moment? For example...
Touch: why we need it and how to get it
Written by Dr. Cari OnealJan 18th, 2021
Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Let’s talk a bit about the importance of touch during the pandemic, the various types of touch, and a few ways you can make sure you are getting the healthy benefits of physical touch that...
Tips for Having a Healthy Bisexual Relationship
Written by BICUPIDDec 23rd, 2020
Dating, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sexuality
Having engaged in a bisexual relationship can deliver an amazing experience to you. However, it has been identified that most of the bisexual couples who live out there in the world struggle while...
A Man's Guide To Be Better In Bed: 10 Sex Tips
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerDec 11th, 2020
Dating, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Are you frustrated because your sexual performance isn’t where you want it to be? Are you having good sex, but wish you were having great sex instead? The question of how men can get better...
Do Open Relationships Work?
Written by John Kim LMFTDec 9th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
First, an open relationship, also known as a non-exclusive relationship, is an intimate relationship that is sexually non-monogamous. The term may refer to polyamory, but generally indicates a...
Let's Talk About Sex: How Good Are We At Communicating Our Desires?
Written by Love HoneyDec 7th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Dirty talk aside, deep conversations about sex get a bad rap as being uncomfortable and cringeworthy. But unless your partner is a mind reader, you could be stopping your sexual satisfaction with...
Are Open Relationships as Healthy as Monogamous Ones? Yes!
Written by Douglas LaBier Ph.D.Nov 30th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
Accumulating research from several sources underscores that our society is evolving in many realms. A major example is the new generational transformation underway via the highly diverse...
21 Best Foreplay Tips For Men
Written by Dr. Laura BermanNov 25th, 2020
Dating, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Let’s talk about 21 different foreplay tips, ideas, and techniques men can follow to become better in bed. Foreplay is something we tend to forget about at times but is a vital...
20 Best Foreplay Tips For Women To Please Him In Bed
Written by Dr. Laura BermanNov 23rd, 2020
Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Ahh—foreplay! The typical anticipatory precursor to sex. It’s ever-important to you and oh-so-fun for him, but it’s not just for a woman’s pleasure. It’s a common...
21 New Things Couples Need To Try In Bed In 2020
Written by The Promescent TeamNov 10th, 2020
Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
It happens to the best of relationships. Love kindles like a wildfire... then simmers down to a slow glow. If you don't stoke the fire every now and then with something new in the bedroom, the heat...
How To Masturbate For Men: 15 Tips (Ultimate Guide)
Written by The Promescent TeamNov 9th, 2020
Educational, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
We may think we live in a sexually liberal society. In many ways we do. But try bringing up the most normal sexual activity of all — masturbation — with someone you don't know that...
4 Steps to Take Control of Your Sex And Your Life
Written by Dr. Megan FlemingOct 5th, 2020
Beauty, Dating, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Isn’t it time you stopped making your partner or your current circumstances responsible for your happiness and sexual pleasure? The truth is, most of us unwittingly sabotage our...
I Want A Sexual Makeover
Written by Dr. Megan FlemingOct 4th, 2020
Beauty, Dating, Health & Wellness, Sexuality
4 WAYS TO KICK YOUR SEXUAL MAKEOVER INTO OVER DRIVE! Of course you do! And if you are reading this…then you, like most women, are interested in looking your best and getting the most out of...
Where Does Sexy Fit Into Your Day?
Written by Dr. Megan FlemingOct 3rd, 2020
Dating, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
HERE ARE FEW TIPS TO HELP YOU FIND YOUR SEXY! When I set out last month to finish up my Online Program called Re-Kindle Your Desire & Bring Sexy Back I decided to do a quick survey to make sure...
Keep Your Sexual Pilot Light On . . . Always
Written by Dr. Megan FlemingOct 2nd, 2020
Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
Ladies, let me tell you that one of the moment painful moments I have, as a sex and relationship therapist, is when I hear a woman say, “I’d be ok, if I NEVER had sex again the rest of...
The Shame of Sex
Written by John MelfiOct 1st, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
From a very young age I was taught that being with girls was bad. The first time I kissed a girl was in first grade. I had become friends with Jill (not her real name) at our catholic school. We...
What the Hell is Compersion? And Why You Need It to Make Open Relationships Thrive
Written by Samia Mounts (OpenLove101)Sep 30th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
“If you’re happy, I’m happy.” That’s compersion in a nutshell. If you’ve never heard the term before, you’re not alone. You won’t find it...
Ask John & Jackie: Being a Unicorn Girlfriend In the Lifestyle
Written by Jackie & John MelfiSep 29th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
We’ve got TWO burning questions today from our readers: Question #1 Dear John & Jackie: I am new to the lifestyle and I am a unicorn. A couple has expressed wanting me to become their...
7 Steps to Having the Sexiest STI Disclosure Conversation Ever
Written by Samia MountsSep 28th, 2020
Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships
Earlier this year, I came out to the world about something most people would keep to themselves: I have HSV-2, or what is commonly thought of as genital herpes. You can read all about it here...
Here’s What You Should Know About Sexological Bodywork
Written by Dr. JessSep 27th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Say hello to Pamela Madsen, the founder of Back to the Body, specializing in sexological bodywork. Not exactly sure what that is? Learn more by reading below! 1. What is your definition...
How to make love during COVID-19?
Written by Jennelle GordonSep 11th, 2020
Dating, Health & Wellness, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
7 ways to stay safe and make love during this pandemic. Connect at the level of the heart You take the sexuality out of it and really focus on connecting in the essence of who you are. ...
3somes better in fantasy? Or in reality?
Written by Jennelle GordonSep 10th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
Everyone’s fantasised about threesome in one way or the other. Studies shows that most people that are having sex have actually fantasised about it before. Is it worth the fuss? Is the...
How to improve your relationship using Tantra?
Written by Jennelle GordonSep 9th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
We all want connection, intimacy and of course orgasms too. Let me discuss with you how we can really improve our relationship and how can we use tantra to improve our connection and intimacy with...
Why should you watch porn?
Written by Jennelle GordonSep 8th, 2020
Sexuality
The age-old question that still lingers on the mind of most women in society is should I watch porn or should I not? Is porn socially acceptable as it’s something that we can watch without...
How Older Adults Define Sex—And How Their Views Change Over Time
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerSep 7th, 2020
Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
Research has found that different people define sex in radically different ways. Most research to date has focused on heterosexual, college-age adults and their views of sex, which reveals...
3 Theories Behind Why We Kiss
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerSep 6th, 2020
Dating, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Kissing is one of the most common sexual and romantic behaviors in many cultures around the world; however, kissing is far from a universal activity. In fact, researchers haven't found...
Why Women Hook-Up—And How They Feel About Their Hookups
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerSep 5th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Relationships, Sexuality, Social
When I was an undergraduate student, the weekends usually meant parties. And Sunday brunches often consisted of friends dishing on any hookups that occurred at those parties. Looking back on those...
How Many People Have Used Sex Toys During the Pandemic?
Written by Dr. Justin LehmillerSep 4th, 2020
Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sexuality
According to numerous media reports, sex toy retailers around the world reported a surge in sales since the COVID-19 coronavirus pandemic began, especially during the period when lockdowns...
Breath: Your Most Basic Body Tool
Written by Sheri WinstonJun 8th, 2020
Educational, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
In the Beginning Was the Breath Breath. It’s the foundation of life itself, one of the unchanging rhythms of existence. When you were born, the first thing you did was breathe—you...
Sexual By Nature
Written by Dragonfly & EJul 19th, 2020
Educational, Food & Nutrition, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Why are we here? This is a question that has been asked probably since the evolution of consciousness. As individuals, this can be a profound and many-layered question. The answer is so incredibly...
How to stay connected and have pleasure in a world of Coronavirus
Written by DragonflyJul 24th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sexuality
During a time in our world of extra stress and anxiety, living in fear, and the short and long term effects if you contract COVID-19 this round of flu season or not. The world’s unknowns as a...
The Missing Female Pleasure Parts
Written by Sheri WinstonJun 16th, 2020
Dating, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
The Search for Buried Pleasure What’s wrong with our standard map of female genital anatomy? Unfortunately, what’s missing from the picture is most of the equipment responsible for...
Sexual Breathing For Sensational Sex
Written by Sheri WinstonJun 14th, 2020
Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Sexy Breath Your breath is the most central and simple tool you have to shift your state of consciousness. You can use your breath in a multitude of ways. Your breath is one of your most...
Vaginal Sweet Spots
Written by Sheri WinstonJun 14th, 2020
Dating, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Q: Are you Familiar with the A-spot? I am re-reading your awesome book ‘woman’s anatomy of arousal’ and was curious to know if you have heard of the A-spot? From what I can...
How to Manage Jealousy and Insecurity in Open Relationships
Written by Dr Rhoda LipscombJun 9th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
Jealousy and insecurity are huge issues for people in romantic relationships, whether they have established a monogamous or open relationship. So, it is not surprising that when people are in the...
How Sex Positive Are You, Really?
Written by Dr Rhoda LipscombJun 9th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
In many open relationships and alternative sexuality communities, there is talk about being more “sex positive.” Considering the negative attitudes and beliefs we have all grown up with...
Video Conferencing Therapy for Open Relationships and More
Written by Dr Rhoda LipscombJun 9th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Relationships, Sexuality
With all the social distancing guidelines changing our everyday interactions, everyone is having to question just what they touch, be it an apple at the grocery store, or our partners. For those...
The Swinging Lifestyle in the age of COVID-19
Written by Dr Rhoda LipscombJun 8th, 2020
Alternative Lifestyles, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sexuality
Ever since the COVID-19 virus has become a global pandemic it has dominated the news both day and night. As the number of confirmed cases increase, along with the rising number of severe cases and...
O is for Outercourse
Jul 24th, 2019Sexuality
Outercourse is defined as sex that doesn’t involve penetration in to the vagina or the anus. Some people also include no oral penetration however many discussions about outercourse go...
Thinking of Adding Another?
Written by Dr Stacy FriedmanApr 15th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
So You Want a Threesome? Here are Questions to Ask A couple desiring a threesome is not uncommon at all. For years, sexual fantasies revolving around two women and a man or two men and a woman have...
6 Tips for Revving Up Your Sex Life From a Sexpert
Written by Dr Stacy FriedmanApr 15th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Educational, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Could your libido use a boost? Tired of the same old, same old? Need more confidence to be uninhibited in the bedroom? We don’t have sex just because we like it—we do it because we LOVE...
6 Steps to Start Exploring the Swinging Lifestyle
Written by Dr Stacy FriedmanApr 15th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
As a clinical sexologist and sex coach, I have talked with numerous couples about their desire to swing, their challenges with starting, and how to navigate their sexy and fun times in the...
What Are Sexperts and How Can They Help?
Written by The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and DavidMar 18th, 2019
Educational, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
As we begin to find out more about ourselves and our relationships, we uncover new people out there trying to help us along our way. On your way to charting your own sexual evolution you may have...
Sharing Sexology with a Wider Audience
Written by The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and DavidFeb 27th, 2019
Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
We all crave connection, acceptance and love. One of the fascinating ways we express these desires is through sexual contact, yet it can often be one of the most mysterious and taboo subjects to...
I am Woman Hear me Roar - 7 Reasons for Loud Sex
Written by The Sexy LifestyleFeb 18th, 2019
Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Do you ever wonder why porn stars make so much noise during porn sex? All that heavy breathing, moaning, groaning, even howling and screaming in some cases? When I first discovered porn, I used to...
Why Sex Health Tips Are So Important
Written by The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and DavidFeb 15th, 2019
Educational, Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
The foundation of The Sexy Lifestyle is opening our minds to new ideas and experiences. Important sex health tips allow us to continue--or even begin—our developing sex education. It can open...
LIVE Video: Why Are People in the Swinger Lifestyle? | Sex Uninterrupted
Written by Sex UninterruptedFeb 12th, 2019
Educational, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Sexuality
I asked the question "What attracted you to the Swinger Lifestyle? / Why did you decided to explore the Swinger Lifestyle & non-monogamy?" and talk about the answers I received! © SU...
LIVE Video: What You Want to Know About the Swinger Lifestyle
Written by Sex UninterruptedFeb 5th, 2019
Dating, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
I asked the question "What Do You Wish You Knew More About When You Opened Your Relationship/Started in the Swinger Lifestyle" and talk about the answers I received! © SU Lifestyle Media Inc...
Join the Adult Sex Education EVOLUTION with Our Great Sex Academy
Written by The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and DavidFeb 4th, 2019
Educational, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
There’s never been a more important time to be working in the field of adult sex education. With countless pieces information at people’s fingertips, it’s important for...
Achieving Your Sex Goals in 2019!
Written by Sisters of SexualityJan 30th, 2019
Sexuality
The New Year represents different things for everyone. For some, it’s a new chapter, a clean slate, a fresh start, a way to get rid of old habits, and make improvements on one’s self...
SEX and SOCIAL MEDIA
Written by Dr NancyJan 29th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Educational, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
"SEX & SOCIAL MEDIA” With Dr's Nancy & Mark on The Conscious Living Show which airs live every Tuesday 9am PT, 12noon ET. LISTEN TO SHOW NOW! (available soon) How has social media...
IGTV Viewer Q&A #1 | How To Bring IT Up? | Swinger Lifestyle Education
Written by Sex UninterruptedJan 29th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Dating, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
We regularly answer questions from our viewers and followers on IGTV! Q: How do you bring it up to your spouse that you want to explore the Swinger Lifestyle? © SU Lifestyle Media Inc. VISIT...
LIVE Video: Coming Out to My Family | Sex Uninterrupted | Non-Monogamy Podcast
Written by Sex UninterruptedJan 22nd, 2019
Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
I open up about my life in a non-monogamous relationship and how I am choosing to live authentically. I do lives on Instagram often so please make sure you're following if you want more...
3 Tips to Improve Sexual Intimacy with your Partner
Written by The Sexy LifestyleJan 14th, 2019
Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
One of the best parts of hosting a radio show all about sex and sexuality, is learning from the best sex educators in the business. So many people ask us for tips and tricks that we often feel like...
Properly Use a Condom - video tutorial
Written by Sex UninterruptedJan 8th, 2019
Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
I discuss AND demonstrate how to properly use a condom and put one on! Visit DESIRE AND SPICE HERE & stock up on lube!use the code TAARAPROMO for 15% off
What Happened to My Estrogen? Causes of Early Menopause
Written by Med AmourJan 6th, 2019
Health & Wellness, Sexuality
You're feeling fine and living your life. Inside, you still feel like an insecure teenager but on the outside, there's the stray grey hair and maybe...was that a hot flash? You start to feel...
4 Reasons Why You Should Masturbate in a Relationship
Written by Med AmourJan 3rd, 2019
Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Contrary to the popular belief, masturbating while in a relationship is completely normal, and absolutely beneficial. Many people stray away from masturbation under the assumption that “I am...
What IS a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist? Dr. Robyn Wilhelm Answers
Written by Med AmourJan 2nd, 2019
Health & Wellness
Are you at the end of your rope and one of many coping with urinary incontinence? Have you accepted that wearing pads or (eek!) adult diapers is your destined path? Or maybe you're unsure of where...
Bladder leakage? Gain control with Lovelife Krush
Written by Med AmourJan 2nd, 2019
Fitness, Health & Wellness
It happened at work. I was 41. I had dark jeans on that got darker when the urine burst forth from my bladder and soaked my legs, the standard-issue industrial chair I was assigned and my socks. My...
BJ Tip & Toys You Can Use
Written by Sex UninterruptedJan 1st, 2019
Educational, Kink & BDSM, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Today I discuss Blowjobs and all the fun toys you can incorporate into your fellatio play! PURCHASE THE TOYS I DISCUSSED HERE & USE THE PROMO CODE TAARAPROMO for 15% OFF!!!!
The Sex Uninterrupted Vision
Written by Sex UninterruptedDec 27th, 2018
Alternative Lifestyles, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Relationships, Sexuality
James and I have been in an open / non-monogamous relationship together since we started dating in 2013. We both were sexual and experimental young adults and often felt misunderstood by...
Sex During Pregnancy - Tips for Comfort!
Written by Med AmourDec 21st, 2018
Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Ladies, it's time to drop the prehistoric myths around sex that your grandma told you. Sex during pregnancy is completely healthy! In fact, it is actually beneficial to continue having regular sex...
Stress and Low Sex Drive: What You Can Do
Written by Med AmourDec 20th, 2018
Health & Wellness, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Ughhhh… that feeling hits again. Your partner wants to be intimate with you, but you are just not feeling it. How did this low sex drive creep its way in? You are stressed beyond belief, and...
Chronic Pain and Sexual Intimacy: Giving and Getting the Pleasure That's Deserved
Written by Med AmourDec 19th, 2018
Health & Wellness, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
50 million people in the United States are living with chronic pain. But these large numbers can just be unfeeling stats on a page and it can be tough to understand exactly what that looks like. To...
We-Vibe Touch for Solo or Couples Play - Review
Written by Med AmourDec 19th, 2018
Health & Wellness, Sexuality, Shopping
You would think that with the amount of vibrators that I own, they would all feel the same. WRONG. Each vibrator has its unique feel and purpose, which is why the We-Vibe Touch vibrator has...
"Sex Positive Parenting" Do Kids Have Sexual Rights Too?
Written by Dr NancyDec 11th, 2018
Relationships
"Do Children Have Sexual Rights? With Dr's Nancy & Mark on The Conscious Living Show which airs live every Tuesday 9am PT, 12noon ET. LISTEN TO SHOW NOW! Today we bring on the tender topic of...
Why Consensual Non-Monogamy
Written by Sex UninterruptedDec 11th, 2018
Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Millennials, Relationships, Shopping
I never woke up one day magically craving an open relationship and announcing that I wanted to be non-monogamous with my partner. For a long time it wasn’t even something I was familiar...
To my daughter, you will not be invisible.
Dec 9th, 2018To my daughter, you will not be invisible. In my last article I discussed a rather non traditional (controversial for some) way of introducing my daughter, now seven, to her vulva...
From Private Parts to Vulva, talking with my daughter
Dec 9th, 2018My daughter Ariella, now 7, always called her ‘private part’, Toulla. Admittedly a hybrid between Zulu and Greek given my roots and ashamedly this is what I taught her when she was 2...
Vaginal Dilators: What Are They?
Written by Med AmourDec 4th, 2018
Health & Wellness
To begin, before anyone asks: vaginal dilators are not dildos! Many doctors, nurse practitioners and doulas we speak to at conferences know right away what we have on display. Others giggle and...
The Couple Behind Sex Uninterrupted - Taara & James
Written by Sex UninterruptedDec 4th, 2018
Sexuality
Sexuality is an important part of who you are. Man or woman, somewhere deep down, we all possess desires, urges, and fantasies. Whether you choose to acknowledge this or not is a hundred percent...
Sex Toy Review: GALA by We-Vibe
Written by Sex UninterruptedNov 27th, 2018
Sex Ed 101
I am not a toy girl. Sure I picked some up here and there but they were more novelty items than actual mastruabtation tools. They were only brought out when I wanted to show them off, be...
Sacred Intimacy & Erotic Communication Retreat
Written by Dr NancyNov 23rd, 2018
Seminars & Retreats
VALENTINE'S WEEK AT HEDONISM BOOK YOUR TRIP TODAY! "Sacred Intimacy & Erotic Communication Retreat" Joining Hedonism II's Valentines' week once again are Drs. Nan &...
Sex and The Sybian
Written by Dr NancyNov 23rd, 2018
Relationships
SEX & THE SYBIAN With Dr's Nancy & Mark Interviewing Bunny Lampert. LISTEN TO SHOW Nov 20, 2018 Conscious Living Show Blog Description: Meet Bunny Lampert. The...
Swinger Lifestyle Vacations
Written by Sex UninterruptedNov 20th, 2018
Travel
Travel is a HUGE part of the lifestyle! There are so many companies, groups, destinations, takeovers...it can be overwhelming! Especially for someone that is new. I know when we went on our first...
The Sexual Trifecta - Connection
Written by Warm Feels GoodNov 17th, 2018
Relationships
Ready for the culmination of your most erotic, ignited, elevated, sensual pleasures? In our first adventure, we explored “Why Warm?” Then we engaged our minds into the delicious joys of...
The Sexual Trifecta – Sensation
Written by Warm Feels GoodNov 17th, 2018
Relationships
Hi again! I am Janine, co-founder of Warm and the “Queen of Heat” with some more hot insights into elevating your intimacy. In our last blog post, I touched on the challenges that are...
The Sexual Trifecta – Anticipation
Written by Warm Feels GoodNov 17th, 2018
Relationships
Relationships are not always easy. They are worth it, and that is a different thing than easy. Long-term partners understand that relationships take consistent engagement to keep the connection...
An Orgasm SO Intense, It Sparked an Entire Company
Written by Warm Feels GoodNov 17th, 2018
Relationships
Could you imagine? An orgasm so intense it propelled you to invest in building an entire company to help others experience the same pleasure you did? It may sound like click bait but this is the...
Is Intimacy Going Extinct? (Nov 13, 2018 Show)
Written by Dr NancyNov 13th, 2018
Relationships
IS INTIMACY GOING EXTINCT? With Dr's Nancy & Mark LISTEN TO SHOW Nov 13, 2018 Conscious Living Show Blog Description: Loneliness is increasing with each generation leading to more...
Pleasure Is Our Birthright (Nov 6, 2018 Show)
Written by Dr NancyNov 13th, 2018
Relationships
PLEASURE IS OUR BIRTHRIGHT! With Dr's Nancy & Mark LISTEN TO SHOW Nov 6, 2018 Conscious Living Show Blog Description: Pleasure is something we assume everyone enjoys, yet many women never...
Wake Up To Your Sexy Life! (Oct 30th Show)
Written by Dr NancyNov 13th, 2018
Relationships
Wake Up To Your Sexy Life! With Dr's Nancy & Mark LISTEN TO SHOW October 30,2018 Conscious Living Show Blog Description: What does it mean to “wake up” to your life? ...
Anal Beads & Anal Play Video
Written by Sex UninterruptedNov 13th, 2018
Sex Ed 101
I talk about Anal Beads and why they are so much fun! These are great for beginners and those looking to spice something up and try something new! PURCHASE THIS TOY HERE & USE THE PROMO...
Rules & Boundaries: what they are, why you need them & how to communicate them
Written by Sex UninterruptedNov 6th, 2018
Kink & BDSM
Rules and boundaries build the foundation for your experience in the Swinging Lifestyle. Below I discuss what exactly rules and boundaries are, why you need to establish them and how to...
All About Swinger Lifestyle Clubs
Written by Sex UninterruptedOct 30th, 2018
Sexuality
Everyone is curious to know what a swinger club is like. In our city alone there are already FIVE clubs and from coast to coast you can find plenty more! Over the years I have noticed a major...
Chakrubs, Yoni Eggs and Pussy Health
Written by Sex UninterruptedOct 23rd, 2018
Sexuality
If you’ve been present on social media, I’m sure you have heard all about crystals and their healing benefits. The New Age movement is surfacing and it’s not just the shamans and...
“The Fear of flying solo”
Written by Cheryl BesnerOct 21st, 2018
Dating
Did you ever wake up on the other side of “happily ever after” to “OMG what just happened to my life?” Coming face to face with a fear of flying solo when you have spent...
“Get up to date on your life”
Written by Cheryl BesnerOct 21st, 2018
Dating
When a year ends, we have time to reflect on the past and set new goals for ourselves no matter what they are. It’s a fresh start and it’s a blessing on its own to be able to ring in...
Consent & Playing Safe are a Must in Consensual Non-Monogamy
Written by Sex UninterruptedOct 16th, 2018
Sexuality
Thinking of exploring in the Swinger Lifestyle? We discuss topics that are great for first timers surrounding playing safe and the importance of consent. The Lifestyle isn’t just about...
Why Some Men Come Faster Than Others
Oct 12th, 2018Sexuality
If we take a look at the two largest studies about the average sex time, we find out that the median time of vaginal penetration is around five minutes and a half. That means that 50% of men...
“Designer Relationships”
Written by Cheryl BesnerOct 8th, 2018
Dating
“If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan and guess what, they haven’t planned for you”-Jim Rhon- When it comes...
The Art of Dating Smart
Written by Cheryl BesnerOct 8th, 2018
Dating
There is a thought process for many that just because we are confident, mature and even worldly individuals, we know everything about dating and relationships. Well, we don’t! The missing...
Men's Sex Toys That Give More Than Just A Happy Ending
Written by Sisters of SexualityOct 7th, 2018
Sexuality
When most people think of men's sex toys, they tend to think of the imitation or 'real look and feel' of the fake vaginas or the masturbation sleeves. There are men's sex toys that are actually...
Top 5 Natural Ways To Get Your Juices Back - No Lube Required
Written by Sisters of SexualityOct 7th, 2018
Health & Wellness
Vaginal dryness can be caused by a number of internal and external issues. Internally it can be caused by perimenopause or menopause with declining hormone levels, lose of elasticity. Vaginal...
Frequently talking with your teen about sex can promote safe sex later in life
Written by The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and DavidOct 4th, 2018
Sexuality
Parents who talk to their kids about sex , sexuality and sexual health can benefit from an improved parent-child relationship according to new research.
“Sober the new SEXY!”
Written by Cheryl BesnerSep 30th, 2018
Alternative Lifestyles
Is alcohol impacting your relationships? Are you even aware that you or maybe someone in your circle is suffering from some form of addiction? You may not be. For instance, drinking has become such...
“Dating as a SINGLE MOM”
Written by Cheryl BesnerSep 30th, 2018
Dating
Are you a single mom or dad? If so, how are you balancing love and relationships in today’s dating world? Do you feel isolated or overwhelmed at times, just barely able to keep your head...
Bromance – WTF is it really????
Written by EVERYTHING Sexy with Jamal and PolyRickSep 25th, 2018
Relationships
By now, everyone’s heard the term and, perhaps even, seen one on TV. Remember our former president and VP, Barack Obama and Joe Biden – you couldn’t miss that one. ...
Moving forward with LOVE!
Written by Cheryl BesnerSep 21st, 2018
Relationships
Have you ever arrived at a crossroads, looked at all the different street signs of life and been unsure of which path to follow? Well, if you are like most individuals and honest about it, the...
Don't 'Fake it 'Til You Make it' When it Comes to Orgasms
Written by The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and DavidSep 19th, 2018
Sex Ed 101
"When we first started dating, I had a hard time reaching orgasm and I didn't want him to feel bad about his bedroom skills, so I got into the habit of faking it. When we got married I stopped...
Naughty In N'awlins 2018
Written by Conscious Living with Dr. Nancy Sutton PierceAug 24th, 2018
Seminars & Retreats
August 3, 2018 Catching Up with an emotional Dr. Nan about the tragedy in Northern California town and then a lot of fun sharing about Naughty In N'awlins 2018!
How Random Acts of Kindness Can Help Reduce Anxiety
Jul 17th, 2018Alternative Lifestyles
Being kind feels good and now a study suggests that acts of kindness can help to reduce anxiety. Jess joined Jeff to discuss this study and other research related to kindness on Global TV’s...
How to Bring Up Tough Conversations
Jul 17th, 2018Alternative Lifestyles
Whether you want to address an issue related to money, childrearing, in-laws, chores or sex, the toughest conversations are almost always the most important. And if you approach them effectively...
A Day In The Life Of A
Apr 29th, 2019Entertainment
People have certain preconceptions when they hear the words "male escort". You may be forgiven to think that all a male escort does is to satisfy their clients' sexual urge, but surprisingly, this...
This is What Bisexual Really Means (at least to me)
Written by Dr Lori Beth BisbeyJan 29th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Relationships, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
It's not a "one-size fits all" kind of thing. Am I bisexual? It's something I always wondered, because I have been attracted to both men and women for as long as I can remember. When I was a...
9 Reasons She Wants to Have Sex With You
Written by The Sexy LifestyleAug 7th, 2018
Sex Ed 101
Remember when you first discovered sex? In your 6-year-old mind, your parents had done the dirty twice—once to conceive you, and a second time to crank out your little sister. Then, around...
Being A Male Escort - The Real Story Behind
Apr 14th, 2019Entertainment
There is a general consensus among people outside and within the industry that the demand for a straight male escort is so much lower than the demand for bisexual or gay male escorts. In truth, it...
The Counterintuitive Reason BDSM is the Best Way to Explain Sexual Consent
Written by Dr Lori Beth BisbeyJan 27th, 2019
Alternative Lifestyles, Kink & BDSM, LGBTQ, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
Yes, really. If you're offended by the notion that BDSM may hold powerful answers to the issues raised by the #MeToo Movement, it's likely because you don't have a clear understanding of authority...
9 totally unexpected facts about kissing that you never knew
Jan 27th, 2019Alternative Lifestyles, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
You're welcome. Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we perform as human beings. We kiss to demonstrate affection, to demonstrate desire and to increase desire. Darwin wrote about kissing and...
Let's Try Anal
Written by The Sexy LifestyleAug 7th, 2018
Sex Ed 101
Slightly taboo and very naughty, anal sex could be just the thing you need to spice up your sex life. The pleasure of anal sex has both mental and physical aspects. How do dirty thoughts make you...
The real reason men are so turned on by rough sex
Jan 25th, 2019Kink & BDSM, Sex Ed 101
It seems that since 50 Shades of Grey became popular, rough sex and BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism) have hit the mainstream. References can be found everywhere from...
A is for Arousal - Where Sex Begins
Written by Dr Lori Beth BisbeyDec 13th, 2018
Alternative Lifestyles, Sex Ed 101, Sexuality
A is for Arousal which is where sex begins. There is no sex without arousal. Arousal begins in the mind. Even for those of us who first experience arousal through visual means...
OPEN: AN UNCENSORED MEMOIR OF LOVE, LIBERATION, AND NON-MONOGAMY
ABOUT OPEN
An unprecedented exploration of polyamory, from an award-winning journalist chronicling her first open relationship with unflinching candor as she explores this fast-growing movement
“In Open, Krantz invites us into her deepest privacy as she explores her body and soul, fears and ecstasies, desires and disappointments.”—Dr. Christopher Ryan, New York Times bestselling author of Sex at Dawn
ONE OF THE MOST ANTICIPATED BOOKS OF 2022—Los Angeles Times, Autostraddle, Electric Lit
Can we have both freedom and love? Comfort and lust? Is a relationship ever equal? And is the pleasure worth the pain?
When Rachel Krantz met and fell for Adam, he told her that he was looking for a committed partnership—just one that did not include exclusivity. Intrigued and more than a little nervous, Rachel decided to see whether their love could be open and coexist with the freedom to date other people. Could they strike an exquisite balance between intimacy and independence, and find a way to feel passion for one another once the honeymoon phase ended?
For Open, her extraordinary debut memoir, Rachel interviewed scientists, psychologists, and people living and loving outside the mainstream as she searched to understand what non-monogamy would do to her heart, her mind, and her life. From exploring Brooklyn sex parties to the wider swinger and polyamory communities, Rachel and Adam attempt to write a new plot for their love story. But they also run up against miscommunications, ancient power dynamics, and seeming betrayals that threaten their love. In these pages Open, Rachel casts new light on the unique ways coercion and gaslighting manifest in open relationships, and finds herself wondering what liberation really looks like.
With an unflinching eye and page-turning storytelling, Open is groundbreaking in both its documentarian approach to polyamory and its explicit subject matter. From debilitating anxiety spirals to heart-opening connections with the men and women she dates, Rachel puts her whole self on the line as she attempts to redefine what a relationship is—or could be.
Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex
AUTHOR: Dr. Gloria Brame
ABOUT: How do you tell your partner that you'd like to be spanked?
Where can you find a good dominatrix?
If your husband like to wear your panties, does that mean he's gay?
What really goes on at SM clubs?
After you tie someone up, what exactly are you supposed to do?
Is there such a thing as normal sex?
If you've ever wondered about the ins and outs of bondage, spanking, or cross-dressing, look no further. Come Hither is a frank, friendly guide on how to turn your secret fantasies into satisfying expressions of love and desire. The official resource guide for SM/fetish sex at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, Come Hither proves that a little kink can be a lot of fun.
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