Ultimate Guide to Picking Out the Perfect Vibrator
Written by Dr. Stacy Friedman on Jun 20th, 2022
If you are looking into buying yur first sex toy, or even just adding a new one to your collection, one of the best and most popular selections you can make is a vibrator. Making a purchase like this can be daunting, however, and there are many factors to consider.
Equipment
The first step in picking a vibrator is to consider the obvious: what equipment do you have? For example, if you have a penis, you may enjoy different types of stimulation than someone with a clitoris. If you have breasts, you may enjoy different types of stimulation than someone without them. Most vibrators are pretty versatile, but some (like this rabbit vibrator) are highly specialized for someone with an exact configuration of genitalia.
Context
Do you plan on using it alone or with a partner? In the bath? In a tent while camping? In a dorm room? With multiple partners? All of these are important things to consider when purchasing a vibrator.
Masturbation or Partner Play?
If you are planning on using it in place of a partner for masturbation, you may want something realistic, but if you plan on using it with a partner, you may want something more neutral and palatable to a variety of tastes.
Furthermore, if you are using it with a partner, what type of sex acts are you planning on engaging in? If you plan on using a vibrator for vaginal penetration, you may consider a g-spot vibrator or vibrating cock ring. If you plan on using it for anal stimulation, then a toy made specifically for that is something you should consider. If you plan on using it for foreplay and teasing all over the body, then a body massager or wand may be even better. And if you’re planning on enhancing your oral sex routine, look no further than a tongue vibrator
Location, location, location.
If you plan on using it in the tub, shower, or pool, then you definitely need to consider something waterproof. The same goes if you plan on using it with multiple partners: you want to make sure whatever you get is easy to clean (which usually means waterproof).
If you plan on taking this camping, or if you live in a dorm, with roommates, or with your parents, then a quiet vibrator is your best bet. If, for any number of the same reasons, you need the vibrator to be inconspicuous if found or left out, then something that doesn’t look like a vibrator at first glance is probably best. Luckilly, there are several options for discreet vibrators. There are quietly vibrating ones, ones that fit inside a realistic-looking pack of gum, and even some that look like lipstick.
Flexibility and Intensity
There are many reasons you may need to consider a multi-function, multi-speed, or multi-setting vibrator. At any point in time acorss your lifetime you may experience changes in your preferences or sensitivity. Pregnancy, menopause, injury, surgery, gender affirmation transitions, and even just going a while without having sex can make you need more or less pressure, speed, and intensity. If you are hoping to buy a vibrator once and never have to worry about buying one again, then a multi-function or multi-speed vibrator may be in your best interest.
Convenience
You know your own habits and needs better than anyone, so something that is convenient for you may be different than what is convenient for anyone else. You may want something that can fit in a drawer, purse, makeup bag, or even your pocket. You might hate having to buy special batteries, so maybe a rechargeable vibrator is a good idea. Or you may not want to have to wait to recharge your toy and maybe switching out the batteries quickly is something you would prefer to do.
Size Matters
If you want something more discreet or if you only plan on using the vibrator in small amounts or on small places, then a smaller vibrator is best. Or if you know that you need a bigger piece of equipment, you might look into a large or extra-large option.
Ultimately, you need to consider what type of stimulation you need to orgasm or have fun as well as what pragmatic features you need. Whatever you need, Dr. Stacy’s shop has it all. Check it out today!
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