The Sexy Lifestyle website is an open-minded hub of sexual knowledge, experience, products and services that facilitates the open expression and discovery of sexuality in all its forms. Through our collection of diverse sexual knowledge, products and businesses, we provide an open forum to listen, discuss, engage and learn from real sex educators with real information, advice and tools. Our platform will help you spice up your sex life and live happy healthy and horny.

The Sexy Lifestyle is where the fragmented pieces of our sexual knowledge can join to create a full picture of human sexuality. Through shared ideas, experiences, expertise, supportive products, resources and communities, our uncensored platform encourages a healthy sex life. Our site is open-minded, compassionate and safe so you can learn more about sex and sexuality and feel comfortable in the process. We embrace the many ways that sexuality expresses itself. We invite you to begin the sex life you desire and reach your full sexual potential.

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Uncensored. Unfiltered. Unforgettable.

Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.

For Everyone Who "Doesn’t Know What They Don’t Know"

This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.

Experience Meets Expertise

Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don’t stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:

  • Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
  • Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
  • Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.

The Foundation: Honest Communication

In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.

What’s on the Menu?

  • The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
  • Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
  • Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
  • The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.

Why Listen?

Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don’t just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex mattersand we ALL deserve it!

Learn:

What is a Squirting Orgasm and What Makes it Special?

What is a Squirting Orgasm and What Makes it Special?

Did you know that squirting orgasms are a sex skill that can be learned? And YES, you can learn how to have — and give — squirting orgasms! After teaching hundreds of women how to squirt and refining my teaching through extensive fieldwork, I’m convinced that Squirting Orgasms are a matter of permission, education, practice, and mastery.   Why should you care?  Vulva owners who can squirt are typically multi-orgasmic— a sexual skill set...

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Cap d'Agde with SDC

Cap d'Agde with SDC

SDC Travel organizes a swinger takeover at Cap d'Agde (the naked city in the south of France) every summer. Quality couples and the SDC staff make every aspect of the event exciting, entertaining and ohhhh sooooo sexy. What memories!!! Enough to keep you coming... and coming... year after year. 

Ask a SEXpert:

Ask a SEXpert

Do you have a question or comment, related to sex, sexuality or relationships. Simply click here and fill out the form. One of our over 50 SEXperts will be more then happy to get back to you with credible information within 48 hours. So, don't be shy just ask away. 

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Blogs:

A List of 25 Sexual Kinks and Fetishes We Know You're Curious About

A List of 25 Sexual Kinks and Fetishes We Know You're Curious About

SO YOU LIKE it when your partner spreads your limbs, ties you to the bedposts, and talks dirty to you. Or maybe it turns you on to kiss your partner's feet, smell their hair, or...

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I'm in a Long-Term Relationship & I've Lost My Libido

I'm in a Long-Term Relationship & I've Lost My Libido

We love sharing great articles from passionate, credible writers. Hope you enjoy it too. Ask Lust: I'm in a Long-Term Relationship & I've Lost My Libido Erika Lust | November 17...

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Podcasts:

The Love Lab Podcast: Sex | Love | Relationship

The Love Lab Podcast: Sex | Love | Relationship

Welcome to the Love Lab podcast a safe and fun place to get real and learn about sex, love, and relationships. Whether you're a man or woman, single or a couple, this is the show for you. I am your...

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Turned On With Sue And John

Turned On With Sue And John

This is Turned On With Sue & John Sue McGarvie is a sex therapist, relationship expert, coach and speaker. Her Sunday night Sex With Sue Radio Show took Canada by storm in 1993. John is a...

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Guests:

The Topless Travel Show

The Topless Travel Show

When you choose Topless Travel, you’re choosing days filled with sun-soaked fun and nights pulsating with raw, vibrant energy. You’re choosing to explore hidden gems in wonderful...

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Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray

Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray

Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray is a Registered Marriage & Family Therapist with a PhD in Human Sexuality. She is a regularly sought-after sex and relationship expert for various media outlets...

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Amanda Biccum

Amanda Biccum

Amanda Biccum is an Evolutionary Coach and Embodiment Facilitator dedicated to helping people discover deeper connections to themselves, their passion and their pleasure. She uses modalities from...

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Laurie Mintz PhD

Laurie Mintz PhD

LAURIE MINTZ, PH.D. is an award-winning college professor. She currently teaches Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of students a year at the University of Florida and has had over 20 years...

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