Dr Jess O'Reilly

An award-winning speaker, Jess has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after.

Jess’ doctoral research focused on sexual health and relationship education and she is passionate about accessible, classroom-based education. When she isn’t globetrotting for speaking engagements, she volunteers with students, teachers and social service organizations to empower young people to embrace healthy, happy relationships.

As a global ambassador for several brands, Jess contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media. You’ll find her advice weekly in the likes of Women’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. Her insights into couples’ issues reaches millions of homes across America as the host of the hit reality series Swing, which just capped its fifth season on PlayboyTV.

Canadian-born and Chinese-Jamaican and Irish by descent, Dr. Jess loves ultimate frisbee, crab, airplane turbulence, cheese and red wine. Makes perfect sense, right?

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Sex with Dr Jess Podcast

Sex with Dr Jess Podcast

In Sex With Dr. Jess, Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, Toronto-based sexologist, author, and media personality, shares tips on how to enhance your sexual life to improve the quality of your relationships. She...

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April 1, 2020

Are you trying to keep it all together during these worrisome times with COVID-19 lurking in the shadows? Is your relationship suffering from the stress caused by coronavirus in your neighborhood? Join us with Relationship Expert and Sexologist, Dr Jessica O’Reilly, from Sex with Dr Jess, as she provides some real advice about how to stay sexy and sane during these crazy times of quarantine, lock-down and self-isolation.


June 11, 2019 & June 12, 2019

Are you struggling to keep your relationship alive as you climb the corporate ladder? Or is your partner focusing on their own career at the expense of your couple? How is it that other people seem to be juggling work obligations and still keep the bedroom hot and spicy? Join us as we chat with ‘power couple’, Dr Jess O’Reilly and her husband Brandon Ware to find out how they manage to continue taking giant steps in their respective careers while keeping the home fires burning hot for each other and enjoying great sex together. It might be simpler than you think.


September 11, 2017

Does it feel like you’re struggling to get some balance in your life? Why is that some couples just seem to have a better sex life, better marriage and a closer more meaningful relationship? Join us with Sex and Relationship expert, Dr Jess O’Reilly, from Sex with Dr Jess as we explore new sexy-fun ways to reconnect with your partner, improve your communication strategies and add back that missing passion and intimacy, so that you can have the great sex you deserve.


February 2, 2017

Looking for sexual compatibility in your soul mate? You two are destined to be together and that’s awesome. But do you ever wonder if your love-life is enough to sustain your sex-life… or is there more to it? If you’re stuck in a stale, sexless marriage, we have good news for you… It's never too late to start again and build your dream relationship. Join us, together with Dr Jess O'Reilly, sexologist and relationship expert, as we discuss all the different ways strengthen your couple and spice up your sex life.

Hot Sex Tips Tricks and Licks

Hot Sex Tips Tricks and Licks

AUTHOR: Dr Jess O'Reilly


Mind-blowing sex isn't just about intercourse—it is about titillating all of the body's hot spots and erogenous zones to peak arousal and build amazing orgasms. Hot Sex Tips, Tricksand Licks teaches readers how to use their hands, fingers, and tongue to build and prolong arousal, control ejaculation, and give their partner (and themselves) incredible orgasms.

In these pages, you'll learn:

—Fingering techniques that will take her over the edge

—Hand-job tricks that will leave him breathless

—Amazing anal play for both him and her

—Sensual massage techniques to build and prolong ecstasy

Mindful Sex: Deeper Connection, Intimacy & Pleasure

Mindful Sex: Deeper Connection, Intimacy & Pleasure



Do you struggle to be in the moment in your relationship, in life or in bed? If so, then this course is for you. The Mindful Sex Program is specifically designed for on-the-go individuals and couples who want to experience more pleasure while building deeper intimacy and a more fulfilling connection. The activities and insights in this easy-to-follow, multi-component program are widely used by counselors and therapists across the globe and their clients report feeling more at ease, more in the moment and more connected — both to themselves and to their partners.


Includes 25+ video and audio modules PLUS bonus videos and handouts you can use in the comfort of your own home.

Provides 20+ practical, easy-to-do activities for presence that will enhance your relationship and improve your life.

Features real people trying and reacting to the activities for the very first time – totally unscripted.

Teaches you the art of mindful giving and receiving of physical affection and pleasure.

Outlines specific communication techniques to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and your intimate relationship.

Cultivates emotional presence for deeper pleasure.

Makes the relationship – including sex – more meaningful, fulfilling and pleasurable.

Introduces approaches to learn about your body and your partner’s in a mindful way.

Mindful Sex Offer

$139.00 USD

The Little Book of Kink

The Little Book of Kink

AUTHOR: Dr Jess O'Reilly


Kinky sex is fun, playful, exciting, and exhilarating. But it can also be dark and more than a little wild. If you want to put some "50 Shades of Grey" kind of adventure into your bedroom repertoire, but don't know where to begin, The Little Book of Kink is for you. Popular sexologist Jessica O'Reilly shows you how to take sex from nice to naughty with techniques for hotter blowjobs, mind-blowingly orgasmic positions, exciting bondage and sensation play, and hot role-playing scenarios.Jessica O’Reilly provides you with specific scenarios and techniques for each activity, including props, dialogue and mind-play to make the experience as hot as possible. Make your fantasies a reality with help from The Little Book of Kink!

The New Sex Bible: The New Guide to Sexual Love

The New Sex Bible: The New Guide to Sexual Love

AUTHOR: Dr Jess O'Reilly


The New Sex Bible is the complete lover’s guide to all things sexual, with a balance of science and anecdote, theory and hair raising practice.

While the mechanics of sex remain largely the same, our knowledge and attitude towards it shifts every few years based on popular culture. Until just recently, kink and toys were considered deviant fringe. Turning 50 used to mean the end of sex,but today Baby Boomers are healthier and more sexually active than ever! Plus, new research has yielded more information on sexual arousal and orgasms than ever before.

The New Sex Bible is a comprehensive primer to every aspect of sex, as well as how to get it and give it good. This is your chance to get hot, up-to-date information with solid new takes on core categories like oral, orgasms, and intercourse. Not to mention some extra sections with a bit of an edge; you'll see how to pull off spicy new positions and put daring twists on classics.